A common critique made of me – even by people who believe they know me – is some woman must’ve really done a number on me. The truth is far less interesting. I haven’t cried over a woman since high school or maybe college, although a few women have cried over me.
I have no bitterness or anger towards woman. Instead, I treat them as they treat me. I live my life by the principle of mutual assent. I reject all form of duties, obligations, and the “right thing.”
This makes me a madman.
Why am I crazy?
(Hint: Use logic rather than slave terminology like duty or morality.)
Think about how the average woman treats a man. She finds a “good catch” – that rare man who meets her almost impossibly high standards.
Rather than do whatever it takes to help him live the life of his dreams, she does whatever it takes to have him submit to her.
She thinks about what she wants out of the relationship – which usually includes children and mortgages and keeping up with the Joneses – and thus begins extracting maximum value.
Women have superior mindset.
I use the term advisedly.
Women believe they are superior to you, and every choice they make is evidence of that mindset.
Think about the traditional marriage between a successful man and a hot woman. Does this woman who found herself a high-value man say, “This man was a massive success before we met. I shouldn’t pry into his business or finances. That’d be presumptuous as heck. If I know so much about business and finance, I should start my own thing.”
Has that ever occurred?
Of course not.
A woman meets a massively successful man and then attempts to rule his life.
Men who earn 100% of the family income who can’t make investment decisions without “checking in” with the wife.
If a man’s wife is a CFA or have massive success in business, that’s great. Yet that’s rarely the case.
Most men don’t touch a paycheck. Their personal finances are handled completely by the true head of household – women. (Women control 85% of household spending.)
Instead a woman whose main qualification for marriage is being hot (and not being a total bitch) comes into the house to run shit. Of course that’s our fault as men. Hot girls are better to rent than buy. If you buy a hot girl because of your love feelings, too bad so sad.
Believe it or not, I’ve even had several women try telling me how to run Danger & Play and run my online brands. In what world does someone who has never had success online tell me anything about how to manage my brand?
(Hint: 99% of women will say this article is misogynistic. But this article will 100% bring me closer to my goals.)
Women truly believe they are superior to men.
Otherwise they’d stop lecturing us about areas they know nothing about.
I have some news for you.
Women are mentally stronger than you are.
LOL at women being the “weaker” or “fairer” sex.
Women are equipped to engage in long-term psychological and emotional warfare. They will take the fight to you and outlast you. They will make promises that they later “feel” shouldn’t be kept.
They will feel no remorse about breaking promises, as her feelings in the present moment dictate whether she should honor her word given days or weeks ago.
Moreover, it’s impossible for a master to lie to a slave. A master tells a slave what the slave needs to hear to keep working. There is no truth or falsity between masters and slaves.
If you do not understand this, relationships will always leave you perplexed.
More than you, women are willing to do what it takes to get what they want.
As a man you have been taught to serve women, and as a woman she has been taught men exist to serve her. When you operate from the slave mindset (men), it’s natural to submit to the master (woman).
Unless you are absolutely clear and uncompromising about what you want, you’re done.
Unless you liberate your mind from decades of social conditioning about a “man’s role,” and “manning up,” that’s it. Your life is over.
This is your first mistake as a man.
I was sitting with a successful lawyer at lunch when sex and relationships came up. “My ex wasn’t into sex at all,” I told him, “which seemed unfair. How can a woman expect monogamy if she won’t give you what you want?”
“That was your first mistake,” he replied.
“What do you mean?”
“You expected her to be fair.”
If you’re a man you must know your place in this world.
You’re slightly above the level of pack mule and well below women. Even “alpha males” on the Internet are fond of saying, “Sperm is cheap and eggs are expensive,” as if those dorks have any comprehension of what it takes to become a high-value man.
You are not allowed to live for yourself. Doing so is selfish.
If a woman goes out, dances on tables, and acquires notches, she is “discovering herself.” If a man lives a party boy lifestyle, he’s a man-child who has forsaken his duties to the world. He must get serious about life, and that means living for women.
There’s an anger you have when learning your entire life was a lie. I was probably once angry.
Humans have a deep need to connect, and when you learn the truth about modern manhood, this connection will be taken from you. Many men become bitter and angry. While anger is a necessary stage of grief, it’s one you must speed through.
Accept the truth for what it is, get over it, and start living for yourself.
Know truth, live truth.
Knowing I am nothing to society is liberating. Like most men I have an innate sense of duty and obligation bound to my DNA. That sense of duty has been cleared from me like a bad rash.
This sense of duty is why men more than women engage in self-sacrifice. Although Hillary Clinton once said, “Women have always been the primary victims of war,” it’s men who die and are maimed for some higher principle the power elite brainwashed them into believing the war was about.
There was a point where I’d have died for my country. I wore the uniform and even was a commissioned officer.
I now live abroad for 322 days out of the year to minimize my tax bill as much as possible, as paying tribute to my slave master no longer seems appropriate.
Your feelings are based on your thoughts.
When you know the truth, you feel great about life.
When people criticize my lifestyle, or expect me to tolerate poor female because that’s what all men do, I laugh.
How other men live is of no interest to me. The value judgments of slaves mean nothing to me. I feel nothing but perhaps a bit of amusement or minor contempt.
Because I refuse to change who I am or what I want, I must be broken. How dare a man have an internal life of his own! How dare a man have a plan for his life that involves something other than giving a woman her American dream!
Yet people from the outside looking in see how I live my life and can’t figure it out. I must be broken. They can’t entertain the idea society is broken, and I’m a free man.
What are YOUR dreams?
(Admit it: You’re afraid to say.)
You’re afraid to admit what you want out of life. You might even be afraid to imagine such a life, as feelings of guilt or shame overtake your body.
I used to be afraid to admit what I wanted out of life, and thus lived a life of frustration and quiet (and sometimes not-so-quiet) desperation. We are our harshest judges, although recognize the law you’re applying comes from outside of yourself.
I care about your dreams, which is why those who look for a guru find me frustrating.
That may seem counter-intuitive. Shouldn’t people love that I care about their dreams?
Yet replacing me as your guru is trading in the slavery you’ve lived under into a new form of a slavery.
I’m a friend and trusted adviser, but not your mom or master.
Unless your life goal is harming children, abusing animals, or actually hurting people, my role is to help you get what you want out of life.
If you want to be a Mormon with five kids, good for you. I won’t say God is a fiction or insult you.
Even if you want something entirely different from me, it’s cool. I’ll help you get there.
But I will never tell you what you should want.
Do you see the difference?
The three-step process to getting what you want out of life.
Step 1. Start thinking about what YOU want out of life.
Remember the visualization exercises in Gorilla Mindset.
I spend time every day reflecting on how my life should look, performing the Perfect Day visualization exercise.
You must first see what you want to get what you want.
Step 2. Ask yourself this question: Will my lifestyle bring me closer to what I want, or will it bring me farther away from what I want?
Remember what lifestyle is. Your lifestyle is the activities you engage in and the people you spend your time with. It’s a simple concept.
Look at the people surrounding you. Conduct an inventory. Who do you spend your time with? That even includes online message boards and social media.
Ask yourself, “Will I live the life of my dreams with those people in my corner?”
Will the woman you’re with give you what you want?
Look at how you spend your time.
If you want to be a multi-millionaire, what are you doing? Will those choices bring you closer to your goal?
Step 3. Live by the Rule of Mutual Assent
I live my life by the rule of mutual assent. To get what you want from me, you give me what I want.
Duty, obligation, the right thing, all men should make compromises, man up, grow up, etc. are not arguments. Those are assertions you’d make to a slave.
I’m 37 and have been high and low. I have a deep understanding of my wants and needs.
Those wants and needs are met, or I am gone.
This is harsh to mainstream society. They cannot comprehend it.
Indeed, society is so used to exploiting men that my view is incomprehensible. Even most men would say I have issues.
In the world of the blind, a man of one eye can see. In a world of slaves, it’s the free man who appears insane.
To live like no other, you must think like no other.
Find out what you want in Gorilla Mindset.