To change your state, listen to the State Control Podcast.
How would your game change if you never felt feelings of rejection? What if rejection had no more power over you than a still breeze? Would your game change if you could control how you responded to women?
One NLP exercise that no one does (event though it’s fundamental and even though you cannot “do” NLP unless you’ve performed this basic exercise) is to create a state of emotion or consciousness that you can always return to. The exercise, described in NLP: The New Technology, requires you to go into a room alone. In this room you need to stand up and focus on an event that has brought you a great feeling of accomplishment. You then imagine a spherical light around your body.
This forms the basis for your “state.” Whenever you are feeling weak, powerless, or embittered, you return to this state.
A person’s default state is a private one and it differs from person to person. My default state when dealing with a woman is a rock. A woman’s emotions, rejoinders, or outbursts flow harmlessly around and past me. I do not move.
To recognize the power of finding – and returning – to your state, observe this Tony Robbins video:
What would you be able to accomplish if you operated from feelings of empowerment? Imagine how much better your day would be if you were able to return to state. Can you see how women respond when they subconsciously detect the power overflowing from you?
Read more: NLP: The New Technology.