You’ve got questions, I’ve got answers. The latest Danger & Play podcast is Q&A time.
00:22 – What do you think about this article, “Why the Millennial Architect Won’t Be Your CAD Monkey.”
I was reading this article, on Architizer, which I believe relates to the Little Boys v. Men post you posted. I wasn’t quite sure what your rules were to posting links to other sites is. You might have already read the article or not.
Whats your take on it?
Is he being a little boy, or do you think he is standing up for himself and his generation?
Read: 8 Traits of Masculine Men.
3:19 – How do I turn my enthusiasm for new ideas into action?
I really enjoy reading your blog and listening to the podcasts.
You commented on one of my posts to “3 Ways to Never Get Rich” – it turns out I was recommending a resource for passive income without my own experience.
That’s not good. I got swept away by my enthusiasm.
It is really something I am struggling with – I get very excited for something, but then I am slow in implementing the actual advice.
Do you have any tips on how to channel my enthusiasm into actually getting the work done?
9:58 – Shout out from Dom Torres.
Read: Danger & Play interview with Dom Torres.
10:19 – Should I lie about who I am in order to build an audience for my blog?
Hey Mike I’ve been spending time trying different methods of making money online. The problem was that I was looking to make the easiest money quickly instead of thinking long term. After some time spent drafting ideas on my whiteboard I decided to start a blog. I wanted to make sure I took action ASAP so I bought a domain/hosting to make sure I followed through with my plan instead of coming up with some BS excuse.
I am a high school student, and I am sure not to many guys would be interested in reading content made by some punk ass kid. So I’m afraid this will take away from how genuine I can be. I would only be writing about topics I have experience with.
Do you think I should modify the truth about my age or be genuine?
13:28 – How do I get a hot girlfriend?
Hey man how do I get a hot girlfriend? What is your advice? I’m so confused there are thousands of sites but I can’t really believe in this pickup stuff.
Some say you need to learn magic tricks and others say don’t do that and lift weights. Do these things help in terms of having a hot girlfriend or do they hinder you? What’s your experience on this and great site and good podcasts man! Peace Mike!
Read: Become the Man to See.
16:11 – What should I do about acne? Should I take Accutane?
Just found your blog a little while back (about 2-3 weeks). Really enjoying everything so far, especially the workout and mindset articles you’ve been putting out recently.
I have a dilemma I was hoping you might be able to give me some advice on. I’ve been struggling with acne for awhile now (nothing too severe, but definitely an annoyance when it comes to game). I’ve reached a bit of a crossroads. Usually, the next step to get this under control is Accutane, but I’m not favoring that option. The idea of overdosing my body and liver on Vitamin A seems stupid.
So I guess my question/dilemma is this: would you recommend that I go through with Accutane in order to get rid of this acne hopefully once and for all? If not, what are your suggestions for improving skin via more natural methods (juicing, vitamins, etc.)?
Read: How to Survive Hell.
17:57 – How do I meet college girls?
Good Afternoon Mike, I think stumbling on D&P was the second best thing to happen in my life, the first being immigrating to the US from a [war-torn country] two years ago, thank you for not being another sellout douche.
Question, I am 26 years old, I like college girls, and I heard you say on your podcast with Chris that you got more college girls in your 30s than in your 20s.
What needs to happen for a man who isn’t going to college to get college girls?
I am just starting on the path, Am on my 7th day juice fast to get healthier and lose some fat, after that I plan to hit the gym and build muscle [I got the Body of a Spartan ebook you recommend, it’s pretty awesome] and am saving up to quit my current job and do blacksmithing with a friend of mine.
Read: Game is Marketing.
21:21 – Do I need to use organic produce when making green juices?
22:28 – How do I start a podcast?
First of all, I just want to say thank you for D&P. The material you create is helping me day in and day out to become a better man and to separate myself from the herd. I just have one quick question for you. My friend and i are looking to start a podcast so i wanted to know, what equipment do you use to record your podcast? We are looking for something that provides multiple voice inputs (two or three hosts) and possibly having people call in via Skype.
Read: How to Start a Podcast.
23:00 – I’m an 18-year-old virgin.
I just started reading your blog last week and I have been blown away by it.
I am writing to you because I am not sure where to start. I am an 18 year old rising college freshman. I am a virgin. I am about average in looks and I have a “skinny fat” body. I have a strict dad who would not let me play sports in high school or mess around. I didn’t drink or do drugs. I still had friends, but we were (still are) virgins. I have kissed a couple of girls (one girlfriend and one girl who liked me), but I have had too much anxiety to escalate. The past few years have been filled with a large amount of sexual anxiety due to porn and me over analyzing everything.
I want to use the articles on your website to help me take action in order to improve my life. The only problem is that I am not sure what I should do first. I want to form habits that I will maintain rather than trying to take on everything at the same time and then burning out.
Where do you think that I should start?
Read: How to Stop Watching Porn.
26:11 – Does being on TRT enable one to maintain a high testosterone level on minimal sleep?
The biggest change I could make to my daily routine would be to go to bed earlier. I have stretches when I manage to do it strictly, but fall off the wagon and end up wasting precious zzz time on the computer. Gaining an hour or two of sleep makes a world of difference for me (i.e. going from 6 to 7-8 hours of sleep) in terms of energy levels, mental clarity, and I would assume testosterone levels (judging by my libido and ability to gain muscle). That also brings me to a question I’ve been meaning to ask: does being on TRT enable one to keep high testosterone levels even with little sleep? I know that my levels are lowered by the constant lack of sleep, and was wondering if TRT would overcome that or be hampered by it.
Read: The Testosterone Zone.
28:11 – How do I overcome approach anxiety?
I am a man who is working to overcome his fear of approaching women. After reading your blog and some others, I realize that I just can let life happen to me, I have to make life happen (I want to create opportunities, not just take them). I’ve never considered myself a ladies man, but I have had women approach me just not on a regular basis. I am also a man who has allowed pass failures hinder his future successes.
I got nuclear rejected back in 7th grade really bad and though I’m 28 now, I allowed that to stick with me. But now, I’m like, “fuck it.” Either get it, or die trying. I wish I could tell you that I completely overcame my fear today and banged 5 women, but that’s not the case.
I’m taking action steps every time I go out somewhere to start a conversation with a women I find attractive every time I go out. I have also given up porn and masturbation because I was using it as a crutch to sooth my lack of “playa skills.”