How do I get out of the friend zone? I will tell you in less than five minutes how to get out of the friend zone, although you might not like my answer. You likely never had a strong male role model in your life who told you that men and women aren’t designed to be friends. Here’s a summary for those who don’t want to listen to a 5 minute podcast.
1. You’re not her friend.
You want to sleep with her. Be honest about your intentions. If she were fat and disgusting, you wouldn’t be “friends” with her. Stop lying to yourself and stop lying to me. You’re not her friend.
2. She’s not your friend.
She is using you as a free psychotherapist. Friends help each other out. When has your “friend” helped you get laid, helped you moved, or put your own interests above her own?
3. Stop waiting around for table scraps like a vulture.
Other men are getting all up in that like she’s Miss Teen Delaware and you’re doing what….waiting for them to finish? Have some self-respect.
Being in the friend zone means you need a mindset adjustment.
Be a lion, not a vulture.
4. Go build a crew of legit men.
Men and women are not evolved to “hang out.” Men are hunters and women are gatherers.
Men take action, women chew the fat.
Stop blabbing for hours about emotional crap with women.