“Game” to me has never been about parlor tricks or clever openings. Game is about building yourself up as a man and creating an amazing lifestyle.
Think of game like an investment strategy. Ideally we would all have substantial assets that would allow us to live off of interest (passive income). While living off the interest, we would be free to engage in other entrepreneurial activities (active income).
Focusing on building yourself up as a man – becoming the man to see – is like buying an investment property. You’ll keep getting paid long after you stop actively seeking investment returns.
Get your style in order, lift weights, juice, read books to expand your mind, do alpha male stuff like learn how to fight and shoot guns. Develop alpha male body language. This will pay off even when you are not doing anything.
For example, someone once posted a scientific study showing that alpha males flinch less often than beta males, and that women can sense this. Women are attracted to men who do not move around too much.
I do not have to try not to flinch. It’s not a parlor trick. It’s who I am.
When I walk into a bar, there’s a good chance that maybe one or two other guys could beat me up in a fight. Of course anyone can get hit in the right spot and no one is invulnerable. But I’m not really worried about getting my ass kicked, as I know how to survive a street fight.
I also know that even when there are many guys who could kick my ass (if you hang out in Vegas and San Diego, you’re going to run into a lot of men who train and would steam roll everyone but top MMA fighters), they can sense that I could potentially hurt them. (Just as any dork could get a lucky punch in on me, I could be that “any dork” who gets the lucky punch on them.) Predators in nature and in civilization know it’s costly to fight one another. Predators tend to avoid other predators – even when it’s a lesser predator like me.
My vibe is like rental income from a rental property. I don’t do anything but exist and the rent checks keep coming in.
Having a nice bankroll also improves your game because it allows you to chill out. I’ve been in situations where I had to know how many drinks were just ordered and hoped my debit card have enough cash on it. Worry about money messes with your mood and hurts your game.
When you have been saving your money, you don’t fidget or get worried. You know that if there’s a logistical snafu, you can just get a hotel. You got it covered. You’re in control. You give off a stronger, more dominant, masculine vibe.
Having some style also improves your game. If you look great, you will draw attention to yourself without having to make yourself known like a nerdy kid in school who keeps raising his hand whenever the teacher asks a question. (Check out Masculine Style.)
The U.S. is a land of fat males and skinny fat males and skinny dorks. What kind of body do women want? If you have muscle, you will stand out. If you have broad shoulders and a narrow waist, you will get noticed.
Juicing is scientifically proven to improve skin quality. People who juice a lot of carrots, for example, have the same glow as someone with a light tan.
Now, none of this means that the hottest girls in the bar are going to approach you. It does mean they’ve noticed you.
It also means that girls will regularly approach you. I’ve been propositioned for threesomes many times.
Without my having to say or do anything actively, plenty of bangable girls basically put themselves at my feet. Other girls will sorta start moving towards where I am, waiting for me to open them.
Some may say this is arrogant, and that my gifts are God-given.
Instead, I was the proverbial fat kid growing up and had asthma and was on welfare. I couldn’t even run around the block. I also have bad acne later in life. I had to lose 80 pounds of fat with Intermittent Fasting.
I am introverted and had to create a special type of game for introverted men.
My motto, once I began developing a life philosophy and thinking for myself was, “Fuck Darwin.” I didn’t just passively accept that nature or the universe game me. I began building myself into the man I wanted to be.
Some people even accuse me of having good genetics. I laugh and have absolutely shocked people by showing them pictures of me as a kid and teenager.
To the extent I am “somebody,” it’s because I’ve built myself up.
Game isn’t running dorky routines. Game isn’t being an entertainer who gets a lot of numbers and make outs but never closes.
Game is taking yourself to your highest potential as a man.
Hence, every post that appears on Danger & Play is about game.