Question 4 comes from an anonymous reader who asks:
How do you deal with friends and family after swallowing the red pill? I get so much hate from them and feel like they are always attacking me for stating obvious truths about women, society, etc.?
I do not fake who I am and yet people in the real world do not hate on my views. I do not have that problem, and you won’t either, if you understand why I don’t have that problem.
Are you walking the walk?
Imagine you are a skinny kid who has spent hours on Bodybuilding.com and YouTube debating whether a bodybuilder is actually natural (none of those guys are, by the way, so stop being fan bois). You tell everyone that they need to 5 meals a day to maximize anabolism. You diligently carry around a gallon jug to ensure you stay hydrated and you drink micellar casein before bed to ensure that your body does not go catabolic while you sleep.
At work you tell everyone about your bodypart split routine.
You will look like a joke because you are a joke. You’re just some geek who is regurgitating things other people have written. You haven’t accomplished anything. You are nothing.
This does not mean you will remain a joke. Consider yourself a transient in Joke City. But recognize that it looks awfully silly for some skinny kid with 13″ arms to talk about bodybuilding.
If you are walking the walk, you don’t need to tell people what you are doing. They will ask you.
Imagine you’re the same skinny kid. Suddenly your arms and neck swell up so much that you need a new shirt. You rip your jeans because your legs have gotten so big from doing 20 Rep Squats. What do you think will happen?
“Man, what have you been doing?!”
The same is true of game. You should be dating girls that you would never have been able to get years ago.
If you walk into a party with a hot girl on your arms or you start leaving parties with hot girls, people are going to start asking questions. The caliber of women you meet should be so high that people say with bewilderment, “What is she doing with that guy?!”
If you are walking the walk and still getting hate, remember something. Remember that most people are losers:
However, if you take 100 individuals who start even at the age of 25, do you have any idea what will happen to those men and women by the time they’re 65? These 100 people believe they’re going to be successful. They are eager toward life, there is a certain sparkle in their eye, an erectness to their carriage, and life seems like a pretty interesting adventure to them.
But by the time they’re 65, only one will be rich, four will be financially independent, five will still be working, and 54 will be broke — depending on others for life’s necessities.
People may be somewhat dismissive of what you are doing. Let them be dismissive. Why would you care about what losers think when you are successful?
Success is the only proof a man needs to show what he is doing is the truth.
In summary, talk less talk and walk more of the walk. If people aren’t asking you questions or trying to learn your secret, then you have a long way to go. Focus less on the haters and more on how you will accomplish your goals.
If people still hate on you, cut them out of your life. Haters are a cancerous growth. Haters suck away your energy and life.
I get enough hate from complete strangers. There are many who do not like my swagger.
The same lips that make women want to kiss you make men want to punch you.
Why would you tolerate a hateful environment from those who claim to love you?
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