Players With a Conscience, Relax: She’ll Get Over It

A lot of players have a conscience. We think, "I'm not happy in this relationship, but this girl will kill herself if I dump her." Instead of doing what's best for ourselves, we do what is best for a woman. I stayed in a relationship for far too long. I was afraid of devastating my ex, and so I ate the spoon fulls of shit she brought home every day. Whenever I tried breaking … [Read more...]

The Willpower Instinct

The Willpower Instinct: How Self-Control Works, Why It Matters, and What You Can Do To Get More of It. The too long didn't read/watch version: Sleep more. Meditate. Exercise. Eat a lot of vegetables/don't spike your blood sugar with high glycemic foods. Don't feel guilty about your failings. Release your guilt. Let it go. … [Read more...]

To Win the Game, Become Egoless

[There's a contradiction in the title; post a comment when you see it.] In Brazilian Jiu Jitsu the objective is to strangle your opponent to the point of unconsciousness or to use leverage to apply enough pressure to a joint that if your opponent does not surrender, his arm, leg, ankle, or neck will break. Although BJJ is fundamentally a violent sport, guys who stick with … [Read more...]

“Should I Break Up With My Girlfriend?”

What man hasn't asked that question? Courtesy of BBC News, you have have your answer. Using UN data on population size in 177 countries, together with estimates of global weight from the WHO and mean height from national health examination surveys the team were able to calculate average BMI figures for each country. Using the values that you input into the calculator, it works … [Read more...]

The Winning Question

Most guys you'll encounter are losers. If the vast majority of men dropped dead, it would no loss to me or society writ large. Men aren't losers for lack of knowledge. We aren't living in a jungle where every path is uncut. There are several proven success road maps. Men are losers because they refuse to ask themselves the single most important question a man can ask. It's a … [Read more...]

Vodka Gummies

Vodka Gummies After

Jello shots are a delicious and effective way to get the party started. They are a pain in the ass to make, and they are also cliche. Even some bars offer jello shots. Vodka gummies are simple to make, look cool, and are delicious. To make vodka gummies, here's what you need: vodka (I use Costco's Kirkland Vodka, which is the same as Grey Goose; Smirnoff works, too); gummy … [Read more...]

Be Kind to Your Black Brothers

When white American men complain about American women, they are actually complaining about white women. If you white guys think you have it tough, consider what a black man has to deal with: I used to work with a girl that had a subscription to a magazine literally titled "Black Woman". It is a magazine for the educated black chick. Reading the editorials was like stepping … [Read more...]

Women to Avoid

This is not my list and there are some quibbles. Overall it's excellent: 1. Are on meds for mental health issues 2. Claim to have been raped or molested 3. Don't know their credit score 4. Divorced 5. Disagree with you on # of children you want 6. Smoke, even occasionally. 6. Go out and party more than once a week 7. Own small dogs that fit in purses 8. Don't follow the … [Read more...]

The Tao of Game

You are your own master: If a country is governed wisely, its inhabitants will be content. They enjoy the labor of their hands and don’t waste time inventing labor-saving machines. Since they dearly love their homes, they aren’t interested in travel. There may be a few wagons and boats, but these don’t go anywhere. There may be an arsenal of weapons, but nobody ever uses … [Read more...]