A lot of players have a conscience. We think, “I’m not happy in this relationship, but this girl will kill herself if I dump her.” Instead of doing what’s best for ourselves, we do what is best for a woman.
I stayed in a relationship for far too long. I was afraid of devastating my ex, and so I ate the spoon fulls of shit she brought home every day.
Whenever I tried breaking things off, she freaked. She cried. She was vulnerable. I don’t kick dogs or spit on babies. Hurting a weak creature isn’t my thing.
So I would cave. I’d take her back. She’d then return to bitch mode.
Finally we ended things for good.
Six months later, she was in the best relationship of her life. She and I were bad for each other. Now she is happy.
Although I stayed with her ostensibly for unselfish reasons (“What will she do without me?”), it was actually my male ego that kept me in the relationship.
My male ego made me think I was so special that my ex would just die die die if I left her.
Do you really think you’re so special that she’ll never get over you?
If a girl is attractive, she’ll have forgotten about you in days.
Don’t let your conscience and ego prevent you from being happy. You’re not special. She will get over you.
Go forth and dump her.