Visualization is a scientifically proven way to improve performance. Most men refuse to do visualization exercises for fear of being “cheesy.” Given that visualization is something done within the privacy of your own mind, the only person calling you sill is yourself. Stop being so judgmental.
You can use visualization to take your game to its highest level.
What is this secret visualization tactic?
As any player knows, running game is hard. An attractive woman gets hit on dozens of time each week. How do you differentiate yourself from every other man?
There are several excellent books about game and game blogs. Using these materials, you’ll learn how to approach a woman, how to overcome approach anxiety, how to develop alpha male body language, how to read a woman’s body language (to pick up those indicators of interest, or IOIs), how to make better eye contact, and how to…do a lot.
Using this visualization technique will make everything you’ve learned come together into a cohesive whole.
When you’re out and a hot chick makes you nervous, you might stop in your tracks. Get your head right:
How would I act if I knew every girl in the bar wanted me to come talk to her?
Really, deeply, think about it.
How would you act if you knew that girl who gives you chills was waiting for you to approach her?
First of all, you wouldn’t have any approach anxiety, would you? Why would you be nervous when she wants you to talk to her? Her whole night will be a failure if she doesn’t meet you.
Second, your approach wouldn’t be wooden or try-hard. She wants to talk to you, so you’ll be chill.
Third, you will catch her off guard. “Who is this guy,” is what a girl wonders when you approach her as if you already know her.
When your mindset is right, your approaches will almost always lead to a close.
Simply walk over, smile, and say, “Hey, what are you doing here?”
Don’t open with a neg. You don’t feel pressure to “DHV.” You don’t sweat the interaction.
You simple approach someone who has been dying to talk to you all night.
If you’re feeling a little tense about talking to a girl, stop yourself. Take a deep break. “She wants to meet me. Of course I should go talk to her. It will make her night.”
Once you master visualization, all of the theoretical knowledge and hundreds of approaches you’ve made will form a mosaic of game. All of the grains of sand scattered throughout your mind will become one.
You will soon have the game of an alpha male.