Women enjoy being choked during sex. It turns them on and gives them more powerful orgasms. But as a man you have to know the right way to choke a woman. Try these rough sex techniques in and outside of the bedroom and you will have a much better sex life. (P.S. Don’t forget to use sex pillows to get deeper penetration during sex.)
Why do women enjoy being choked during sex?
Choking works because it’s a show of dominance. More than anything a woman wants to submit herself to a superior alpha male. (Read: How to be a More Dominant Man.)
All those who would deny reality need only look at sales figures for Fifty Shades of Grey. (“The series has sold over 90 million copies worldwide and been translated into 52 languages, and set the record as the fastest-selling paperback of all time.”)
The number one sexual fantasy have is a rape fantasy. Nearly 40% of women have a rape fantasy. Several sex therapists and psychologists have studied this phenomena:
From 1973 through 2008, nine surveys of women’s rape fantasies have been published. They show that about four in 10 women admit having them (31 to 57 percent) with a median frequency of about once a month. Actual prevalence of rape fantasies is probably higher because women may not feel comfortable admitting them.
Of course no girl wants to be wolf packed on the D.C. Metro or beaten up. Yet nearly ever romance novels consider healthy does of a woman being taken against her will. The key is that she is taken against her will by a dominant man.
Given the prevalence of the rape fantasy and the desire women have to be dominated, it only makes sense to learn how to properly choke a woman.
“You look like the kind of girl who enjoys being choked,” I told a girl who I was gaming at a bar. She smiled, “How could you tell?”
I immediately pinned her back against the wall. I pressed my body against hers, put my hand around her neck, and began squeezing – gently at first to make sure she was comfortable with what was happening. Then I gave her a nice hard squeeze as a show of strength.
One hour later, I was hooking up with her in the back seat of her car. Two hours later, she was enjoying rough sex in my bedroom.
How do you choke a woman during sex?
To get good at choking a woman during sex, you need to learn some technique. Most guys clumsily put their hands around a girl’s neck and then press against her windpipe a girls. That’s not erotic. That just hurts.
Instead, you must go for the carotid artery, which are the two lines veins on either side of the neck. When you squeeze the carotid artery, the girl shouldn’t cough, as you hands are not on her wind pipe.
The carotid arteries (on either side of the neck) carry oxygen-rich blood from the heart to the brain. When these are compressed, as in strangulation or hanging, the sudden loss of oxygen to the brain and the accumulation of carbon dioxide can increase feelings of giddiness, lightheadness, and pleasure, all of which will heighten masturbatory sensations.
Once you’ve cut off oxygen to her brain, she has about 3-5 seconds before passing out. During these three to five seconds, her sexual pleasure will increase immeasurably. (Some women enjoy being choked out unconscious, though that technique is for advanced users only.)
At the bar, I covered the girl’s neck with my had, but I squeezed with my thumb and fingers. The “webbed” part of my hand didn’t move forward to her neck. To time the squeeze, say in your head, “Squeeze, release.” Once you’ve finished saying, “Squeeze, release” to yourself, let go.
As you choke more women, you’ll learn how to time it better. Plus, tastes differ. Some women enjoy a light squeeze where as other girls enjoy being choked unconscious. As with all forms of dominance play, start off slowly and work you way toward the kinkier stuff.
I like choking a woman right up until her eyes almost go lifeless. Women also love this. Once the life returns to her, it’s as if she came back from the other side.
Sex becomes more than a physical act. It becomes a sublime act of submission. Her orgasm is an out of body experience.
I’ve also choked women unconscious. It’s no cause for alarm. She’ll be fine once you release the pressure from her carotid arteries, thus allowing blood flow to return to her brain.
You should also choke your girl when standing around. Consider it a public display of affection with a dominance twist – “choke PDA,” if you will. When she acts up, stand behind her.
Apply pressure to her carotid arteries by squeezing your biceps – like doing a one-half rear naked choke.
Once you start choking women, you’ll be addicted. Women love it, too.
Choking is also a useful indicator of your strength as a man. If you are an alpha male, a woman will crave your domination and show of strength.
If women do not regularly let you choke them, your game is weak. You are giving off a weak, beta male vibe and are lucky to be getting any sex at all.
Have fun, but be careful.