One typically male conversation is to minimize libraries of knowledge into one principle. You’ll often hear weight lifters, for example, ask, “If you could only do one exercise, what would it be?” Guys they debate whether you should do dead lifts only, or pull-ups only.
Those conversations are generally pointless, because it’s not as if you can only do one exercise. Yet the dialog is helpful because it reveals universal principles. If you could only do one exercise, for example, it should be the clean-and-jerk.
Thus, if there were only one rule of game for you to follow, it’d be this: Follow the book.
Look, if you are not pulling the quantity and quality if women you desire, it’s because of one reason: You failed. All of your judgement and experience, though undoubtedly valuable in other fields, hasn’t transferred over to meeting women. You, in other words, are not enough.
The great thing about game is that it can be learned. I am proof of that. The guys I roll out with are proof of that. Dozens of other guys writing about game are proof that game can be learned.
Yet the vast majority of guys won’t learn game because they are too busy arguing game.
If you knew so much about game, you wouldn’t be arguing with anyone. Instead, guys would ask you, “What’s your secret?”
Game has been around for a long time. Guys have gone before you. Instead of arguing with guys or debating concepts or saying, “That won’t work for me,” stick to the script. Do what those who have gone before you tell you to do.
Follow that one rule of game, and you’ll be on your way to a playboy lifestyle. Ignore it, and you’ll prove that an insane man does the same thing repeatedly, while expecting a different result.