After the commute, a lengthy workday, and a gym session, 14-16 hours of my day are gone. I thus don’t have much time to run game. Nevertheless, I have no trouble meeting women, and if I have any problem, it’s keeping track of all of them. To play hard after working hard, follow these rules:
1. Always look fresh. Since you can’t spend four hours at night playing a numbers game, each interaction with a woman must count. Also, women will hit you up.
I was walking to my gym, wearing cords, desert boots, and a bright Western shirt when I heard two 8’s making a ruckus behind me. I stopped, turned around, and smirked. One of them said, “It’s hard meeting a good man in [this town]!” She wanted me to approach, but fuck that noise: I don’t skip workouts for women.
Another day I was leaving the gym wearing a fatigue shirt, black jeans, and boots. A group of girls stopped me to ask for directions to Pinkberry. As I started to leave, one of them said, “It’d be better if you walked us there.”
If I had looked like a slob, neither of those interactions would have happened.
2. Go grocery shopping. Players who eat take-out every night are missing out on a great chance to meet cute girls. On my way home from the gym, I always stop by Trader Joe’s or Whole Foods for a bottle of wine, cottage cheese, or raw ingredients. It takes 5-10 minutes.
Trade Joe’s is full of college chicks and MILFs. Whole Foods is loaded with girls in Yoga pants. Roosh has an entire section in Day Bang on meeting women at the grocery store. Commenter and e-pal dc1000 is a master of closing these women. Maybe he’ll leave a comment or do a guest post.
If you’re not doing grocery shopping, you’re missing out on meeting dozens of cute girls and hot women each week.
3. Find a good stylist. You should be getting your hair cut every 3-4 weeks. Become Facebook friends with her. If you are cute (a great Facebook profile pic is essential), her friends will ask, “Who’s that?!”
My last stylist was engaged to a DJ who promoted monthly underground music events and raves. She and I were cool, and I always had the hook-up with her slutty friends. She and her fiance also had great drug connections.
If your current stylist isn’t getting you laid, find another one.
4. Run gym game. I’ll have an entire post devoted to gym game. Until it appears, here are some tips: Don’t wear ugly gym gear. Wear fresh Pumas (the Cabana Racer series is a good start), some bright shorts, and a tank top (if you have the body to pull it off).
Go to the stretching/foam rolling area. A chick will come near you. Throw some day game lines (again, you simply must buy Day Bang). E.g., if she’s not wearing headphones, say, “Do you like the music they play here?” If she is wearing head phones, gesture for her to take them off, “The music here is awful, isn’t it? My iPod battery is running low, so I had to turn mine off. I was reminded how awful the music they play here is.”
Also: Go to the gym at the same time each day. You’ll see the same girls. Often you’ll see these girls at the club. Then it’ll be on.
5. Run day game. If you have 20 minutes to grab lunch and be back at your computer, make the most of that time. There are going to be girls waiting in line as well as taking your order. Make your move.
6. Develop a routine. Get your coffee at the same place and the same time. If you look fresh, stay in shape, and are friendly, girls will remember you. They’ll give you a chance to open them within a week or two.
Use the credit card move: When you hand over your credit card, cover the card with part of your hand. Slightly (as if incidental and unintentional) touch their hand when handing your card over. If she reels back, don’t open. If she makes eye contact, she’s yours.
7. Don’t bang co-workers. Why work hard and then risk all of your hard work on a piece of ass? At work, I am the most serious guy ever when around girls. I don’t flirt. (Even so, the interns want to bone me.) If you risk your career on a piece of ass, then you are a beta male. An alpha male knows there are so many thousands of women out there to bang, that it’d be retarded to bang a co-worker.
8. Hire an expert. If you are working a lot, you should have some pocket money. Nordstrom will give you a personal shopper/stylist in exchange for your business. Take advantage of that. Since you must look good all the time, you can’t fuck around wearing Old Navy or ill-fitting or poorly-color-coordinated outfits. You must look fresh.
9. Work on your posture. If you work at an office for 10-12 hours a day, your posture will suffer. Bad posture is the same as losing 1-2 inches of height. Foam roll your back every day. Use this one.
10. Get back to work!