Other than fornicating with beautiful women, I enjoy fighting. Game came to me easily, although I’m not a natural, because it’s essentially fighting. I was used to sizing men up, which is what women do, too.
I can tell, just by looking at guy, whether he will be a good fight. Some of this process is unconscious, but there are conscious factors present. Tattoos mean shit. Cauliflower ears mean everything. If the guy has a thick neck and deformed ears, he’ll want to pick you up and slam you on the cement. As a man, I thus know how to size up other men.
A woman, when looking at a man, knows whether he will be a good fuck. Some factors, such as a man’s vibe, pop, and swagger, are unconscious. Others factors are conscious. A woman wants to talk to and fornicate with interesting and mysterious men. How often do women think, “What’s his story?”
If you look boring, no woman will wonder about your story. You will disappear, like another entry in the Yellow Pages. If you look good, women will be curious. Female curiosity is easy to spot.
My game begins in the bathroom mirror. How do I look when leaving the house? Today I’m wearing a pair of canvas Vans (that girls always comment on), some stylish jeans, and a cardigan. I look good.
When stopping by Whole Foods for lunch, women will be checking me out. The teenage girls at the Coffee Bean will look at me self-consciously , fidgeting with their hair, crossing their legs at their ankles, and giggling.
I won’t have to blindly approach. Girls will invite me to talk to them. Guys talk about their close rates being in the 5-10% range. Mine is at least 25%. If I approach four girls, I’ll bang one of them.
We could thus get Zen, and say this: Your approach begins before you make your approach. When a woman sees, she should think, “I hope he comes over to me.”
My approach is how I look. It’s how I carry myself. Even if I were shorter and had a less good body, I’d still have individual style. Find another guy who looks like me. You won’t.
Before you leave the house, you should ask yourself: Why would any woman, just by looking at me, want to talk to me? Is there anything about the way I look that makes me more interested than every other middle manager?
Recognizing that the game starts before you leave your crib will double your close rate.