I don’t read many websites about picking up women, as they are at the lower levels of consciousness. I don’t say this as a way to hate, as being at a lower level is necessary if one is to reach higher levels. I was once at a lower level, too.
How is this lower level manifested? It’s manifested in the anger stages under the Kübler-Ross/The Five Stages of Grief model.
The Kübler-Ross model, or the five stages of grief, is a series of emotional stages experienced when faced with impending death or death of someone. The five stages are denial, anger, bargaining, depression and acceptance.
Denial is where 90% of American men are. These are the beta males who deny the truth about women. When they are rejected and abused by American women, the beta makes excuses. “She only behaved that way because of …”
Men living in denial use terms like “douchebag” and “dudebro” to refer to men who are successful with women. The man living in denial simply has no concept of what women want.
Anger is where 90% of PUAs and others who write about women are. The angry tone is evident in the writing.
Once guys leave the denial phase, they are outraged at the abuse women expect these men to take and that the levels of entitlement possessed by the most mediocre of women.
These men are obsessed with unfairness and double standards. Instead of coolly exploiting the system, they vent and rage.
Bargaining is a level of consciousness few men reach, and yet it’s only a middle-tier level of awareness. The “bargaining man” agrees that women are problematic, but claims the modern American woman will change if he only runs strong relationship game. “My game is tight, so my girl won’t pull the stunts she pulls on other guys.” He is always making deals with women rather than showing them the door.
Depression hits when a man realizes that everything he learned about women was a lie. Maybe he finds out she is searching for ex-boyfriends on Facebook.
Once you understand women, it becomes harder to deal with them. Parents avoid petulant children, and a high-level man starts avoiding the women-children that comprise the vast majority American females. The “depressed man” asks: Why bother?
Acceptance is where a man accepts women as they are, but on his own terms. The “accepting man” knows American women are incorrigible, while also realizing he himself enjoys sex and occasional female companionship. He gets what he wants, but does not believe he will change the fundamental nature of broken woman. He lives a life of freedom.