I do not ask women out on dates. I tell them to meet me. I am aggressive physically, though not in the way some guys are.
Most guys try making out with a girl right away, or they just start grabbing a girl’s ass. When I meet a girl, I put my arms around her waist, pulling her into me. I don’t go for the make out. I simply lay hands on her in a dominant and possessive way.
Most women love this, although some will push back with words, “Awfully grabby there, aren’t you?” My response is a silent, “Meh.” don’t use words to pass her shit test, as in my mind, I have done nothing that requires explanation. If she pulls away, I don’t stop her. I just stop talking to her. A girl once freaked out after I stopped talking to her because she pulled away. She didn’t understand that I simply have no interest in women who are such control freaks that they can’t stand having a strong man hold them close.
Agro game won’t work for every guy. It works for me is due to my look and demeanor. No one accuses me of smiling too often, of being too chipper, or of looking soft. Thus, if a woman is talking to me, she generally wants to be dominated. It’s a self-selection issue.
Let me give an example. Here is an actual text message exchange, with commentary:
Her: How’s it going
Me: At a friend’s b-day dinner. Deciding where you’re going to meet me for drinks…
Note the presumptuousness. I assume she is going to see me. I don’t ask her about her plans for the night, as her plans are irrelevant to my will.
Note that I did not use “we,” as that’s cooperative and therefore beta. I am deciding where she is going to meet me. The war of words is won with subtlety.
I like your forwardness. Unfortunately I have planes for tonight.
How many times have you been flaked on? Well, you are being flaked on because a woman found something better to do. I am that something better she found.
Can’t…formal event. But again, I like your forwardness.
Ditch your date when it’s over.
That is where I won. My response had a lot of subtext, communicating, “I know you have a date. I don’t care. I am not jealous or threatened. Ditch the guy.” Which she did.
Agro text game won’t work for every guy, and it turns off a lot of women. I like agro game precisely because it turns off the women whom I won’t like.
If a girl only wants to have missionary position sex – or considers a few slaps on the ass during doggy style kinky – then it’s just not going to work out. I’d rather get those women out of my life before finding out she is boring in bed.
It’s better to blow a woman out early through aggressive text messaging than to spend several hours with a lame woman.