Upon this a question arises: whether it be better to be loved than feared or feared than loved? It may be answered that one should wish to be both, but, because it is difficult to unite them in one person, is much safer to be feared than loved, when, of the two, either must be dispensed with.
Some people wonder whether money is better than game, and the answer is that a man needs both. If one must be chosen, then game is better than money. However, a night out illustrates why the issue is more complicated than most guys will admit.
We entered the night club with a bodyguard. All eyes were on us, as only celebrities and VIP’s have bodyguards. “Who are those guys,” their eyes said. The host skipped us past the long line to the table. We had security from the club as well as our own bodyguard. The only people who would get into our section had to be invited.
One friend – because he’s a baller like that – was picking up the tab. Every guy at the table knew this. Every guy at the table also knew they were free to bring over any bottle skanks they saw. In other words, even though my boy was covering costs, every guy had money.
Think of it like this. When you go out, what’s money good for? Money signals social status. You can wear nice clothes, a good watch, and get bottle service. Girls are attracted to status. Thus, there’s not a guy at the table who wasn’t convey to women that he had money. Every guy basically had the same amount of what money can buy.
Yet you know what guys from our table got laid? It was the same guys that if you had stolen our wallets (leaving us only an ID needed to get into the club), we would have gotten laid. The table was fun and comfortable, but it wasn’t anything we needed.
The guys without game didn’t get laid, although two guys of them should have. They each had a bottle skank. When one skank stood up in front of where I was seated, I rubbed my hand up her thigh. She didn’t even bother looking down at me, let alone flinch. This was a purebred slut read for some D’.
My companions wouldn’t listen. I told them, separately and together, “These girls are sluts. Tell them you’re taking them to your rooms. Now.” They assured me, “We got it covered,” and thought because they were making out, they were going to get the bang.
Instead of isolating the miserable whores, they lounged around like they had been dating for several months. They made out and had their arms around the whores. At closing time, the girls told my friends to “definitely call us,” and that was that.
Although there was a game failure, the money comes into play because these girls were out of my companions’ leagues. If these guys entered the club with no money, they wouldn’t have even had a chance at pulling these skanks. Even with game, they’d have had a helluva a time.
Game is better than money, but money will open a lot of doors. Many girls are pure sluts who will bang any guy they think is rich. It’s not enough to be seen as rich. A guy must have enough game to recognize when to isolate a girl. If the two guys had done what I had told them to do, they would have gotten the bangs.
So if you have to choose, choose game. Yet a man shouldn’t limit his mindset, or treat game and money as a either-or proposition.
As a man, your girlfriend should love and fear you. And as a man, you should have both money and game.