My post on muscles caused a common myth that ugly guys have perpetuated for years, namely, “Women are not visual creatures,” or at least they aren’t as visual of creatures as men are. I have two responses to that.
First, if that were true, where are the bodies? That is: Where are all of these hot women who are dating ugly guys?
Generally when you see a guy and a girl, they are about equally attractive. When you see an unattractive man with a beautiful woman, it’s almost always because the ugly guy is super rich or famous. He has something to super compensate for his lack of looks. Most of the time, though, couples are evenly matched looks wise.
If women aren’t visual creatures, why are they choosing to be with men who are attractive – indeed, men who are just as attractive as they are? The reality completely contradicts the PUA myth.
Second, I am not even the greatest looking guy in the world, but girls I date are always taking my picture and posting it on Facebook – to show their friends they are with an attractive man. If women weren’t visual, wouldn’t that be a completely pointless gesture? Why would she post pictures of her man if women weren’t visual creatures?
Women are driven by the visual effect a man creates. Yes, if you wear Old Navy jeans and dumpy t-shirts and have no body, you may not believe this. Yet you are being ignored precisely because you do not create an impressive visual image.
Stop repeating myths at this site. If you do not know that women are visual creatures, we are just on different wavelengths. If it makes you feel better to think I am one of the lost souls who just needs to re-read Mystery, that’s cool. Just stop annoying me with stupid comments.
There are lots of places on the ‘Net where guys will tell you that you don’t need to spend years in the gym getting in shape, and that it doesn’t matter if you eat crappy food all day – because your PUA-stamped personality trumps muscle. This is not one of those sites, as my approach to game is based on observation and empiricism. I observe what works, and a man who does not look good simply will never reach the highest levels of the game.
If I ever decide to sell products, sure, I’ll market magic and the easy way out. “BUY MY COURSE AND AFTER ONE WEEKEND, YOU’LL BE A MASTER PUA.” Until then, I’d rather have intelligent conversations with guys who actually understand the game – or are willing to learn from those who do.