One of the biggest mistakes guys make is going for kiss too soon. A woman is on guard for a kiss attempt, which is why women often move their lips away from yours when you go for the kiss prematurely.
When a woman moves her lips away from you, too many guys kiss her on the cheek. There is a much better approach.
As she turns away, brush here hair aside, revealing her neck. Take a quick nibble on the side of her neck, look back up at her in the eyes, smirk, and then go back to dancing or talking at the bar. Do not go for a kiss immediately after nibbling on her neck. Wait a few minutes.
Women give up their neck surprisingly easy. Partially this is due to the “Vampiremania,” with grown adult women obsessing over childhood vampires. Partially this is because few guys actually go for their neck. Women simply aren’t prepared for the move.
Most women are also unaware how a gentle bite on their neck arouses them. The neck is a bona fide erogenous zone. If you nibble on her neck correctly, you’ll notice goose bumps on her arms. Endorphins will be released, and blood flow to her vagina will increase.
I spend a lot of time on a woman’s neck. Only after she is comfortable with my neck bites do I even try kissing her. I can get a woman far more turned off with “neck play” than kissing, and I only kiss her as kissing is a universal sign of intimacy. Otherwise, I’d stick to the neck.
Once I eventually kiss her, it’s an immediate (and hot) make-out session. The woman is highly aroused.
Moreover, a bite on the neck is a subtle dominance play. Anyone who has observe dogs note that smaller dogs roll over, revealing their necks to the larger dogs. Unconsciously, by revealing her neck, she has already allowed herself to be submissive to you.
Although women would make me delay kissing them, I can usually start playing with a girl’s neck within 30 minutes of meeting her.
One does not need to wait to be rejected from a kiss before nibbling on the neck. I always find excuses to play with her neck. I’ll pull her closely to me to “whisper” something in her ear. Then I will take a gentle bite on her neck, smirk, and continue the conversation.
When nibbling on her neck, the only requirement is to not overdo it at first. Women fear hickeys, and once they realize you’re not making sloppy sucking noises or biting her, she will let you have her way with you.
Neck play is foreplay you can do in public, and within two hours – once you’re good at it – you will be fucking her.