Misogyny Gets You Laid

We’ve already discussed marketing yourself towards your niche. My niche is women who tend to view men as inherent leaders – that is, women who want men to dominate them. It has been successful for me in real life, and a recent scientific study shows it may work well for you:

men with negative, sexist attitudes towards women, justifying male privilege, were more likely to use assertive strategies, which may serve to ‘put women in their place’ in a submissive or yielding role during courtship. Women with sexist attitudes towards members of their own gender were more likely to be responsive to men’s assertive strategies. This suggests that they find men who treat them in a dominant way during courtship more desirable, because it is consistent with their sexist ideology.

I take exception to the focus on “negative, sexist attitudes towards women,” as my attitude is generally negative towards all humanity. Men are generally fat slobs with nothing interesting to talk about. As Thoreau wrote: “The mass of men lead lives of quiet desperation.” Such men are no friends of mine.

Yet when dealing with women, only my “misogyny” will shine through. It becomes manifestly evident that the woman should follow my lead. She should be dominated by me, and if she thinks she’ll run shit, there is going to be a problem.

Occasionally a woman will grab my hand to lead me through a bar. I always stop her immediately. I ensure my hand is held in the power position (that is, my wrist is on top of hers), and I lead her. Words are not exchanged, but she understands immediately who is in charge.

Not every woman responds well to my attitude. That’s cool. Women who don’t like my swagger are the exact kinds of women whom I dislike. It’s better for us to part ways early in the night. Sure, I could play along, run game, and have sex with her. Yet sex with fussy womenchild is boring. I am not so in need of sex that tolerating bullshit is worth the payoff.

Moreover, enough women appreciate my aggressiveness that I do not hide when accused of misogyny. Instead, I answer the allegation straightforwardly: “Think what you want. But if you’re my girl, you’ll do what I say.”

  • http://betterlyfe.com Michael

    The quote you highlighted doesn’t suggest misogyny (the hatred of women), it just points out that men who display dominance do better with women. Pretty nuanced stuff, and lots of guys miss this.

    After getting thoroughly fucked over by a woman I went through a phase where I was a complete asshole to the others who followed. What I found was that the women who respond to asshole game have horrible low self-esteem issues and are pretty fucked in the head. Once I dealt with my personal butthurt and got back to being who I really am I found that I was back to getting with great women.

    From your posts “When Should You Compliment a Woman?”, “Facial Hair and Selection Bias”, “A Decade Later: How the Game has Changed” you demonstrate well your game, and from what I can tell you are a cool guy who knows how to push women’s buttons, getting what he wants by giving her what she wants. A guy like that is far from a misogynist.

  • terrence

    HA! I love the title of this post!!!

    Oh, and in addition to being funny………IT’S TRUE!

  • Farty Fartsalot

    It does happen to be true. It’s because misogynistic men don’t put women on pedestals & worship them…