We’ve already discussed marketing yourself towards your niche. My niche is women who tend to view men as inherent leaders – that is, women who want men to dominate them. It has been successful for me in real life, and a recent scientific study shows it may work well for you:
men with negative, sexist attitudes towards women, justifying male privilege, were more likely to use assertive strategies, which may serve to ‘put women in their place’ in a submissive or yielding role during courtship. Women with sexist attitudes towards members of their own gender were more likely to be responsive to men’s assertive strategies. This suggests that they find men who treat them in a dominant way during courtship more desirable, because it is consistent with their sexist ideology.
I take exception to the focus on “negative, sexist attitudes towards women,” as my attitude is generally negative towards all humanity. Men are generally fat slobs with nothing interesting to talk about. As Thoreau wrote: “The mass of men lead lives of quiet desperation.” Such men are no friends of mine.
Yet when dealing with women, only my “misogyny” will shine through. It becomes manifestly evident that the woman should follow my lead. She should be dominated by me, and if she thinks she’ll run shit, there is going to be a problem.
Occasionally a woman will grab my hand to lead me through a bar. I always stop her immediately. I ensure my hand is held in the power position (that is, my wrist is on top of hers), and I lead her. Words are not exchanged, but she understands immediately who is in charge.
Not every woman responds well to my attitude. That’s cool. Women who don’t like my swagger are the exact kinds of women whom I dislike. It’s better for us to part ways early in the night. Sure, I could play along, run game, and have sex with her. Yet sex with fussy womenchild is boring. I am not so in need of sex that tolerating bullshit is worth the payoff.
Moreover, enough women appreciate my aggressiveness that I do not hide when accused of misogyny. Instead, I answer the allegation straightforwardly: “Think what you want. But if you’re my girl, you’ll do what I say.”