Who knew that a cognitive bias could have application to game? Yet selection bias plays a major role in how I dress. First, here’s what selection bias is:
In statistics, self-selection bias arises in any situation in which individuals select themselves into a group, causing a biased sample with nonprobability sampling. It is commonly used to describe situations where the characteristics of the people which cause them to select themselves in the group create abnormal or undesirable conditions in the group.
The upside is masculine men (if you can grow facial hair, you should) can rail these career chicks on the cheap. Career chicks are regularly paying for our dates, and I know a few other guys who live off of their women. A man who wants a free activity/vacation just says, “I don’t want to waste my money on that.” As she cannot imagine going without her masculine male escort, she pays.
Immediately men interjected with what they “heard” or had been “informed” about facial hair. Yet I will tell you that my look involves 5-days’ worth of stubble. My stubble is highly attractive to women, who often grab my face, saying, “Your scruff is so cute.” I will tell you something else. My scruff attracts the exact women I want to attract.
I am a very masculine guy. I am domineering – emotionally and sexually. I like girls who like being told what to do. I like girls who like having me pull their hair, spank them, and tell them I own them. Perhaps you go for another kind of girl, and if that’s the case, good for you. Yet my look is designed to attract the kind of woman I want.
Make no mistake, either. The women I often find myself with are not submissive in the work place. I have dated every type of professional woman, and some of the women who enjoy being dominated the most are career women. Many women have the attitude, “Are you man enough to dominate me,” and yes, I am.
On the other hand, if a girl is not attracted to facial hair, chances are she is not attracted to dominant personalities like mine. We won’t have a good time together, and the sex won’t be how I like it. She will be very fussy, trying to tell me what to do. That sort of sex has no interest to me. When having sex, I am in control.
My scruff allows women to self-select. That is, those women who like my scruff are exactly the time of women I would like.
Part of finding a look is signalling to women what kind of man you are. You are trying to attract a certain type of woman with your look. My look – which is sometimes called cute, but usually referred to as handsome or ruggedly handsome – attracts exactly the kind of women I have the most fun with.
Consider what kind of woman you want to attract. If you like women who are more feminine, and enjoy being dominated by a strong man, grow facial hair.